Finding Love Online: The Playbook on Meeting Women on Dating Apps
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Finding Love Online: The Playbook on Meeting Women on Dating Apps

Published Wed Apr 26 2023

Online dating is a great way to meet new people, but with so many users out there, it can be challenging to stand out from the crowd. That's why it's crucial to market yourself in the right way to build a strong foundation and attract the kind of people you're looking for. Here are six steps to help you market yourself for online dating success to start getting more matches, that can lead to more dates and ultimately find the right woman for you!

Step 1: Style Yourself for Success

Before taking photos, it's essential to make sure your style is on point. Clothes that fit you well can make all the difference in how you look and feel. Take the time to choose clothes that flatter your body type and express your personality. Remember, in the world of dating apps, “You never have a second chance to make a first good impression” There’s no point in using apps if you have a terrible style, or don’t put any effort in this because you will not get much matches.

Step 2: Choose a Great Location

Choose a location for your photoshoot that has a variety of different backgrounds. This will make your photos stand out and show that you're an interesting and dynamic person rather than a person who is too predictable and boring.

Step 3: Master Body Language

Body language is critical in taking great photos and making yourself appear attractive and confident. Stand tall, relax your shoulders, and smile. It's amazing how much of a difference good posture can make. Try out different strong masculine poses and some candid poses of you looking away. And also different types of pictures of you smiling or some serious ones to switch it up.

Step 4: Pick the Right Dating Apps

Choosing the right dating apps is crucial to your success. Do your research, read reviews, and find the apps that have the type of people you're interested in meeting.

Step 5: Craft an Engaging Bio

Your profile bio and prompts are your chance to show off your personality and make a great first impression. Be witty, engaging, and authentic. Use prompts to showcase your interests and humor and make it easy for women to start a conversation with you or to keep the conversation going.

Step 6: Master Your Text Game

Once your profile is set up, it's time to focus on your text game. Avoid being too logical or boring. Instead, be playful, flirtatious, and engaging. The goal is to get out of the app as soon as possible and set up a real date. I cannot stress this enough that even though you can have a better profile by having better pictures, style, posing etc.. If you lack this phase, you will have a hard time getting any dates. I would say that this is the biggest bottleneck for most guys. Conversation fizzles out, getting ghosted and making this a repeated pattern.

So if you are struggling in this part for a while, then what I suggest is for you to go over the last 5-10 women that you have been messaging and look at the pattern that you're doing to analyze yourself and try to fix this. If you don’t know what to do here still and want help, this is where I help my clients with this exact process. They watch my modules on text game and know the concepts, frameworks and also have the examples from other clients that they can follow to see how easily they can set up dates in the most effective way. Plus they get my feedback so I can help them get more dates.


Marketing yourself for online dating success is all about creating a strong foundation. With the right style, location, body language, and profile, you'll be well on your way to getting more matches that can lead to more dates. The more women you meet the higher percentage that you will find the right woman for you.

There’s obviously one more step that I would say is one of the most important. The dates! When you are out with a woman. When you are conversing, how to have a successful date and be able to flirt and create a bit of sexual tension with the woman rather than more friend vibes. This will most of the time lead to her not seeing you as boyfriend material and put you in the friendzone. I will cover this one later on. But you now have the foundation to set yourself up to win!

If you want me to personally help you with the whole dating process and want the fast lane to success. Send me a Dm and we will set up an Initial Consultation.