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Use The Boyfriending Technique To Get The Girl
In order for a typical woman to have sex with a man, she must have feelings of comfort and trust. It is not enough for her to simply feel attraction for the guy. Let's say you meet a girl at a 5 PM happy hour. The two of you hit it off, having a great conversation. She's laughing. She's interested. You entrance her by telling her fascinating stories about your life. The two of you have good rapport. Around 7:30, you get hungry and invite her to get something to eat. Dinner goes well too. Then dinner ends. Now what? At this time, a lot of guys get confused about how to advance the interaction forward. Clearly the goal is to get laid, but the roadmap is often muddled. Usually the night ends with the woman saying after dinner, "I had great time meeting you. Call me. Bye!" Often, the reason this happens all too often is that the woman simply didn't feel comfortable enough around you. The need for comfort is why women like to make guys wait before sex. (If the guy's lucky, it might be only three dates, but with a lot of women, the guy can be made to wait for months.) Fortunately, there's a way to shortcircuit that barrier and get laid fast. I call it the "Boyfriending Technique." If you watch couples who are in close relationships, you'll notice an interesting phenomenon. The man and woman are extremely comfortable touching each other, so much so that they'll even do seemingly gross things like brush sleep ("eye boogers") out of each other's eyes. It's a behavior that's only done by people who are completely comfortable around each other. Certainly when you are at the point in a relationship where you can brush sleep out of a woman's eye, you've long since passed the point where the two of you are comfortable having sex. Catch my drift? You can use this as a psychological weapon to make the woman feel more comfortable around you. In mid-conversation, tell her to hold still and close her eyes. Pretend there's sleep in her eye, and make her believe that you just brushed it off. Later, after the two of you finish eating and leave the restaurant, again tell her to hold still. With your finger, brush off an imaginary piece of food from her lower lip. The net result of the Boyfriending Technique is nuclear. First, it sub-communicates that the two of you are very comfortable around each other. Secondly, it involves you touching her face, bringing your heads closer together and progressing you towards a make out session. Third, in the case of you touching her lower lip, you're in fact touching an erogenous zone. That's right... a woman's lower lip has a high concentration of nerve endings. Stimulate her lower lip makes her body release sex hormones. Make the Boyfriending Technique a part of your dating arsenal, and you'll find more success than ever before. You may just be having sex within several hours instead of having to wait several months. John Alexander is author of "How To Become An Alpha Male," which is the lazy man's way to easy sex and romance. Find it at http://www.becomingalpa.com
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